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为北京的AMXF提供认识的机会;A place to connect Chinese male and non-Asian female @ Beijing

Why we need a network to bring AMXF together

根据我的经验和观察,  亚洲男孩和非亚洲女孩在一起的情况非常少见,我总结了一些原因,我将会在BLOG里面逐渐写出来,同时,我也希望大家能够把自己的想法和经历写出来。 我知道对于大多数的亚洲男孩和非亚洲的女孩,彼此之间有很多误会的地方,但是很少能够有一个地方能互相沟通彼此的想法,那么这就是你可以说出来的地方。

我相信很多亚洲男孩认为西方女孩不喜欢他们,同样,也有很多西方女孩认为亚洲男孩不喜欢他们,同时在感情方面,亚洲男孩和西方女孩都不是主动的角色。 没有人喜欢被拒绝,这样的话双方就很少有人去主动冒着被拒绝的风险来约会对方,这样的话AMXF(亚洲男孩和非亚洲的女孩)的关系自然很难形成。

但是在这里都是喜欢亚洲男孩的女孩;喜欢外国女孩的男孩。我很好奇在北京,到底有多少这样的亚洲男孩和西方女孩的存在,如果你是其中一员的话,千万请写信告诉我。

 

 

Based on my experience and observation,  there are many factors made the occorence of AMXF are not as common as the other way around. Hence I will invite/encourage everyone to write down your thoughts and experience on this. I believe there are many misunderstanding unspoken between Chinese males and Western females, Here I am going to discuss about it. 

 

 I believe a lot of Asian men feel as though non-Asian women don't like them. It goes the same way for a lot of non-Asian females, who assume that Asian guys don't like them.  Nobody likes to get shut down, especially because of their race. Plus, Asian girl are more active and tend to make the first move in a relationship, which is opposed to the way western girls act, and asian guys are passive in a relationship, which made AMXF relationship is hard to start.

 Asian guy(shy/passive)Asian girl(active)
Western guy(active) Gay Most likely happen
Western girl(shy/passive)Hard to happenLesibon

  But here is a safe place that guarantees that the ppl  here are interested in getting to know each other. I am not sure how many/rare AMXF members are at beijing, write to me if you are one of us.

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